This is a site dedicated to giving those struggling in the dating world advice on what to do and what not to do. It started out as a site to vent all of my dating follies, but now that I’m on the other side, everything I did wrong all makes so much sense. Predicting how others’ relationships will turn out and warning friends to steer clear and see warning signs are huge strengths of mine now. I have yet to be wrong on a prediction.
I know many things from experience. One thing is for sure… You must go through your own experiences and learn your own lessons in order to find the right person for you. Others can give you solid advice all day, but until you really understand why you should follow that great advice, you’re going to do whatever the hell it is that you want to do until you learn.
With that being said, here’s a ton of advice. Eventually, there will be enough material here to cover just about every situation you could be in so that you know exactly what you should do when you’re having questions about what to do next with this person you are dating. Then, when you don’t follow the advice, you can have my “voice” in your head screaming “I told you so!”
Then, you will learn. Not because I told you so, but because you actually learned.
“I am an artist and this is my outlet. Writing keeps me sane.” -Jayden
All of my old blog posts about my dating life are still on here so you can see all the shit I went through and all the stupid mistakes I made. It’s not my entire dating history, but it’s a good chunk of the last half of it. Enjoy.